Peer Pressure

Teaching elementary age children about peer pressure is important for developing their confidence and decision-making skills. Here is a guideline for parents to use during teachable moments when explaining the concept of peer pressure and the choices and consequences associated with it:

• 1.Define peer pressure: Begin by explaining that peer pressure is when someone feels influenced to do something they may not want to do or that goes against their values or better judgment because of their peers or friends.

• 2.Discuss different forms of peer pressure: Explain that peer pressure can come in different forms, such as direct pressure (when someone tells you to do something) or indirect pressure (when someone's actions or choices make you feel compelled to do the same).

• 3.Explore positive and negative peer pressure: Discuss the difference between positive and negative peer pressure. Positive peer pressure encourages positive choices and behaviors, while negative peer pressure leads to harmful or risky behaviors.

• 4.Highlight personal values: Help children understand the importance of knowing and valuing their own beliefs, values, and boundaries. Discuss the significance of staying true to oneself, even when faced with peer pressure.

• 5.Teach assertiveness and refusal skills: Teach children assertiveness and refusal skills to empower them to resist negative peer pressure. Help them practice saying "no" assertively and provide them with alternative choices or actions they can take.

• 6.Discuss consequences of giving in to negative peer pressure: Talk about the potential consequences of giving in to negative peer pressure. Help children understand that succumbing to negative peer pressure can lead to regret, harm to oneself or others, and damage to relationships.

• 7.Encourage self-confidence: Help children build self-confidence and self-esteem by emphasizing their unique qualities and strengths. Discuss how being confident in themselves and their choices can help resist negative peer pressure.

• 8.Foster open communication: Create an environment where children feel comfortable discussing their experiences and concerns about peer pressure. Encourage open communication and provide guidance on how to seek help from trusted adults when faced with challenging situations.

• 9.Teach the power of positive influence: Discuss the importance of being a positive influence on others. Encourage children to support and encourage their peers in making positive choices. Help them understand that they have the power to inspire and uplift others.

• 10.Reinforce positive behavior: Acknowledge and praise your child's efforts to resist negative peer pressure and make independent choices. Celebrate instances where they demonstrate confidence and stick to their values. Reinforce the positive impact of their choices and actions.

• 11.Provide examples and scenarios: Use relatable examples and scenarios to help children understand different situations involving peer pressure. Discuss potential choices and their consequences, allowing children to analyze the outcomes of different decisions.



Remember, teaching about peer pressure is an ongoing process. By following this guideline, parents can help their children understand the concept of peer pressure, make informed choices, and recognize the consequences of negative peer pressure.